As of recent,
I have finished a book I received for Christmas from one of my roommates entitled
"
Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov.
A very intriguing read to be honest (from both a male and female perspective)
It basically breaks down the female- male dynamic of dating and relationships.
For example,
the typical sense of the word "Bitch" is defined as a woman who is comfortable in her own skin with or without a man in her life. She is confident, feisty, yet polite and far from uncouth. She keeps her distance while showing enough interest to keep him guessing over and over again.
The "bitch" knows how to hold all the cards while allowing him to think that he has them and that his moves were his genius ideas.
;)
She takes care of herself while allowing him to take care of her and simultaneously meeting his instinctive needs as a male. She does not sit around wishing and waiting for a call, for an "ok" to go out, for advice on how to spend her money or time, for a life at all.
She can hold her own.
She is a mental challenge.
She has her own life.
She cares about her needs.
Now I will add a side note to this entry:
Reading this book may sound terribly cruel and manipulative, however, it is simply straightening the backbone that most women tend to lose when they "fall in love" with a man. It caters to the masculine and instinctive needs of a male, while keeping the woman important and well-respected and appreciated.
Not everything in the book may work, however the general jist that one acquires is one that is inspiring and confidence boosting for every woman (married, single, divorced, widowed, young, and old)
After literally immediately finishing this majestic piece of literature, I made the decision to go back to the old me. The woman who was extremely funny.
The woman who thoroughly enjoyed her hobbies.
The woman who had a life, content and joyous with or without a man.
The woman who was attractive because of her coy, quiet strength.
The woman who takes care of her friends, for the simple fact that they are held in HIGH importance to her.
The woman who steers clear from sappy "chick flicks" because they rarely have a good story.
The woman who is natural.
The woman who is focused on her career and is determined to not be bothered with petty "boy drama."
The woman who refuses to settle for any 'ol cute boy.
The woman who is willing to wait for the right one to come sweep her off her feet...while keeping her heart hidden and on not on her shoulders.
I encourage every woman to read this book
and then read it again and
again and
again...and again...
and again...oh ya and again
then recommend ALL your girls to read it again and again
and again...
and again...and again...
and then maybe again.
The world would be a better place for both men and women if we all read this book.
I cannot tell you how many times I've known women to be easily "heartbroken" over a stupid boy who fails to recognize the wonderful woman that he has been graced to have in his life. Which ultimately leaves her broken and more ready to lower her standards than before the last relationship...or like Dane Cook likes to call it...relationSHITS!
So many women give so much only to be left outside in the cold with a broken heart, broken checkbook, and just plain broken. This book will definitely give you a more neutral, yet optimistic outlook on relationships with men, in order to save the hardships.
In conclusion,
the book "
Why Men Love Bitches" will provide insight into the male complexity while revealing the beautiful rare gem that is called woman, and how you can make a man realize that fact.
READ IT.
